Growth doesn’t have to feel like pressure

Last summer, there was a camper – let’s call her Olivia – who started the summer shy and hesitant to participate. Like many 10-year-olds, she didn’t want to risk making a fool of herself in front of her peers, and was intimidated by the perceived already-established friendships in the group.

Olivia’s counsellors noticed and, along with her cabin-mates, helped her feel comfortable and included. Slowly, Olivia began trying activities, joining group games, and speaking up when she had ideas. Week by week, her confidence grew.

And then it happened – at the beginning of Olivia’s sixth week at camp, a new camper joined the group. They were quiet, clearly nervous and unsure of anyone or anything at camp.

Olivia — who had only recently found her own confidence — took it upon herself to welcome the new camper, walk her through the daily routine, explain what to expect, and check if she had any questions. She had become not just a participant, but a leader. 

By the end of the summer, Olivia had earned a Big Chair Award for her growth, empathy, and leadership. (Forget what a Big Chair Award is? Read more here & scroll to Episode 4). 

Watching her transformation reminded us why we do what we do: when children feel safe, supported, and part of a caring community, they can truly learn and grow — and then help others do the same.

January may be the time the world tells us we need to push ourselves to grow and change. But sometimes growth happens when the pressure isn’t there — when it’s disguised as summer fun, safe challenges, and supportive friendships.

That’s exactly what we see every summer at Adventure Valley: shy campers becoming confident leaders, kids learning to support one another, and parents noticing changes that last far beyond the summer.